Thursday, March 5, 2009

“Love Can Change Everything”

Love usually defines as sharing affection between each other without any boundless. The love itself shows how much someone can express their love with those they like to be. But is that the love can shows to the oppose sex? O is that love can share by a girl and boy? Why not people think that the word loves itself shows us widen meanings. Some people dying for love and on the other side some else seem change mentally. But as a human being what we can do to identify specifically about love? Is that its Adam and Eve fault that firstly show people about love? How could their blame on that? There is a so many question to be answer and love seems incomplete.

Love can change everything consist of lot of meaning and I would like to share my experience on it. In my life circulation I have been through lot of bad thing and such a great things regarding this love. Sometimes this love life gives me happiness and most of the time its gives me pain only. I don’t know what people think but in my point of view I would like to say love such a stupid behaviors if refer to my lifestyle and experience.

I began with my first love that broke all the way and it’s a great pain that I ever had before. I love her so much and so she also did the same but it’s just a stupid predictions. It’s around two and half month we being together but finally everything gone like the leaf flying by the air. I had recalled all the sweet memories that I been gone through and I delete it immediately as I listen to my friends words. I didn’t do anything to her other than being good friend after our relation broke. Who I supposed to blame? And why it’s happened suddenly? Who stole my love and why it’s happened? Only love can do anything without seeing good or bad. Its has been change me and I more confident after that incident.

Beside that I have lost my beloved brother because of this love. I have lost my brother last 12 years ago. It’s happened when I was in standard six. My own blood has been cheated by a girl and my brother suicide because of that. My brother shows a true love on that girl but what had happened lastly? My brother past away eating poison. Its only two days he was admitted and we loss him without any expectation. It’s happened because love and If not that I wouldn’t lost my brother and there is no sadness. Could you imagine how much a mother feels when hear a son cheated by a girl because a love? It’s happened because m brother shows sincerity on his love.

I decide to be alone without any affection but love did not leave me alone. It’s still chasing me wherever I go. I got lot of friends that I can trust and I have loved them as my family but at the ending I have lost everything. Now I realize why we should not express our love to everyone. My friends and I had a lot of great things together to be enjoyed. We have shows over love each other whenever its need. But after we have been together two years, there are changes on each of us after got someone special or girlfriend. Every one of us seems busy with our own stuff and there is a gap between us. But one thing I can say is my friends got their love but not me. I seems be throw away after they got find own love. Honestly I have been left alone while they were celebrating valentine days.

Its happens because of love and its cannot be change forever. Beside that I can say that love can do anything in short period. I have been dumb and I have rejected the love because this changes and I don’t want to repeat the same things that my friends did so. Malaysian thing that love with same sex shows immoral behaviors but don’t they think love is just affection that people share it together. Love doesn’t mean only for opposite sex but can with same sex. We share love with our dad, mummy, siblings, friends and so to our life partner itself. But why people still think love only for opposite sex. Is that wrong a guy talked to a guy? Or a girl to a girl? Society says that it’s some kind of relation and moreover it’s called as gays and lesbians. I think this imagination must be change and we must think broadly. Nobody say that it’s wrong even the god we pray every moments. Is that any book write that it’s wrong unless its misuse by several peoples.

Love change friends, change someone individually and change any kind of relation at any moments. Till now im suffering shows love to everyone and im hating love day by day and one day there is no affection on me it is show o people evens my life partner. I still cannot imagine why this things occur when someone fall in love. Is that love such a great affection and why not we remain the same. On the other hand love also can be praise but not all the time. If we evaluate it bad behaviors will lead than the good ones. Apart from that love can go anywhere and chase anyone to do anything.
You can love anyone but don’t stick on it. Don’t avoid the most closes ones because of love. Live for love, eat for love and sacrifice love for everything is a great things but it cannot be with us all the time. Show that the love has its own specialty and it can be apply in any kind of relation. Don’t think that without love we cannot live but think broadly that love just a part of our life.You never have to be lonely. There's always somebody to love, even if it's just a squirrel or a kitten." You can break love, but it won't die." The phrase itself shows that we can love but not forgetting people around by us and we must stabilize with any kind of relation.

Lastly I would say that love can be change everything and its had change my life too. Love, love and love is it so boring having love with same person? Let us love with anyone that seems sincere with us for the entire life…don’t try to look bad about the relationship with same sex but try to appreciated the relation we have made with someone to be the broad minder…girlfriend will be with us for our entire life but friend we missed, wont come again even we waited for them for a thousand year. Think that love such a great feelings that can change anyone, anytime and anywhere. I would like to say proudly I love my mummy, brothers, sister, adopted ones and my friend especially Kungfu Panda, Sasi Boboy, Rovi, Ash, Azmi, Fiqri, Vino, Dira, Su, Shai, Rekha, Kian, of course my lecturers and also whoever I know…….I LOVE YOU GUYS……LOVE YOU LOT….for being my sister, brother, papa, mama, guidance and all……THANKS FOR THAT…!!!!!!HAKKUNA MATATA!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

CARTOON VIDEO CLIP.....ENJOY


Happy Valentines Day..............


FUNNY VIDEO CLIPS .....LAUGH, LAUGH AND LAUGHT


"LOVE CANNOT BE DESCRIBE"

What you think about love"

such a wonderful feelings that the person can express.....it only can be shown to the right persons...

Basic of love?

understanding, tolarate, closeness, sharing feelings, be together always and etc.

What about Valentine?

lovers day, enjoyment with the loves one, sharing gift and lot and lot.

Special about your loves one?

she is understanding, lovable, willing to do anything for me.....words not enough to describe ABOUT HER....

What you can do for your lover?

no such thing.....

What you thinks about a same sexual love? Bad o Good?


we can love anyone....as long as we receive a true love from the someone we belongs to....its good if that person not make use of our love......

Anyting about love?

A TREE CANNOT GROW WITHOUT ITS ROOT.....

A PERSON CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT LOVE...
LIVE FOR LOVE AND DIE FOR LOVE....

thanks anyway dude...
by: Subramaniam Krishnasamy ( BIBM, uum)










Own View


As i survey regarding the love, i think love such a great thing seems and on the other site love also becoming a worst among the people...these world thinks that love only can be made with a guy and a gurl like adam and eve but no such thing has been stored in any kind of books even bagavat githa, al-quran and bible....

In my point of view, the world must be change due to the development and peoples are seems very broad thinkers in every aspect...we must change the thing that love only can be made with guy and gurl, beside that it can be done with parents, friends, soulmate, guys, gurls, family,and anyone that seems can made love with us...
Nowdays love been destroyed by guys and gurls itself...is it did show the true love? why people cannot be live without it? when a guy and guy say "i love you dude" its seems a some kind of homosexual thing to the others...but dont you thinks its a just a love that made to confirm that they are good friens...
Why people think, love only specific for a guy and gurl...so many qoestion to be answer and we still seems typical on decision making in love....
A guy and guy can love, a gurl and a gurl can love, a mumy and a son can love, papa and a daughter can love, teacher and student can love and etc....this kind of can lead someone to
A good relation must mAde with a proper love without seeing the gender and the status differential....
LIVE FOR LOVE, LOVE FOR LIVE....NO SUCH THING WE CAN DO, OTHER THAN TRUE LOVE WITH THE RIGHT ONE.....
LET US ENJOY WITH LOVE CLIPS




Because you love me.....


love love love............

Types of Love
Boyfriend

Boyfriend is a person's regular male companion in a romantic or sexual relationship[1], while the term "boy friend" (note the space) can refer to a male non-romantic and non-sexual friend. The term is most commonly used to describe any male person who is in a romantic relationship with another person.Partners in such non-marital relationships are also sometimes described as a significant other, life partner or simply partner, especially if the individuals are cohabitating. At times, since "boyfriend" and "partner" mean different things to different people, the distinctions between the terms are subjective, and which term is used in a relationship will ultimately be determined by personal preference.
Girlfriend

Girlfriend is a term that can refer to either a female partner in a non-marital romantic relationship or a female non-intimate friend.[1]The term is most commonly used to describe any female person who is in a romantic relationship with another person.Partners in a non-marital relationship are also sometimes described instead as a significant other, partner or life partner especially if the two partners are living together. At times, since "girlfriend" and "partner" mean different things to different people, the distinctions between the terms are subjective, and which term is used in a relationship will ultimately be determined by personal preference.
Friendship

Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more people. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.
Family
Family denotes a group of people affiliated by consanguinity, affinity or co-residence. Although the concept of consanguinity originally referred to relations by "blood," some anthropologists[who?] have argued that one must understand the notion of "blood" metaphorically, and that many societies understand 'family' through other concepts rather than through genetic distance.It has been argued by many sociologists,[who?] anthropologists,[who?] philosophers[who?] and psychoanalysts[who?] that the primary function of the family is to perpetuate society.[citation needed] Either socially, with the "social production of children", or biologically, or both. Thus, one's experience of one's family shifts over time. From the perspective of children, the family is a family of orientation: the family serves to locate children socially, and plays a major role in their enculturation and socialization. From the point of view of the parent(s), the family is a family of procreation the goal of which is to produce and enculturate and socialize children.
A conjugal family consists of one or more parents/guardians and their children. The most common form of this family is regularly referred to as a nuclear family.
A consanguineal family consists of a parent and his or her children, and other people. This kind of family is common where mothers do not have the resources to rear their children on their own, and especially where property is inherited.
A matrifocal family consists of a mother and her children. Generally, these children are her biological offspring, although adoption of children is a practice in nearly every society.
Romance (love)

Romance is a general term that refers to a celebration of life often through art, music and the attempt to express love with words or deeds.It also refers to a feeling of excitement associated with love.Historically, the term "romance" did not necessarily imply love relationships, but rather was seen as an artistic expression of one's innermost desires; sometimes including love, sometimes not. Romance is still sometimes viewed as an expressionistic, or artful form, but within the context of "romantic love" relationships it usually implies an expression of one's love, or one's deep emotional desires to connect with another person.
Casual relationship

Casual relationship is an annotation used to describe the physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have a sexual relationship or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting a more formal romantic relationship as a goal. It is more than simple casual sex, which has little or no emotional element, and different from a one-night stand, as the relationship extends beyond a single sexual encounter. A casual relationship may be part time, or for a limited time, and may or may not be monogamous. Motives for casual relationships vary, and should be distinguished from casual sex, which is a specific type of casual relationship. Casual relationships sometimes include mutual support, affection and enjoyment, which underpin other forms of loving relationship
Cohabitation

Cohabitation is when people live together in an emotionally- and/or physically-intimate relationship. The term is most frequently applied to couples who are not married.
People may live together for a number of reasons. These may include wanting to test compatibility or to establish financial security before marrying. It may also be because they are unable to legally marry, because for example
same-sex, interracial or interreligious marriages are not legal or permitted.
Eroticism

Eroticism is an aesthetic focus on sexual desire, especially the feelings of anticipation of sexual activity. It is not only the state of arousal and anticipation, but also the attempt through whatever means of representation to incite those feelings. The word "eroticism" is derived from the name of the Greek god of love, Eros, or Cupid. It is conceived as sensual love or the human sex drive (libido). Philosophers and theologians discern three kinds of love: eros, philia, and agape. Of the three, eros is considered the most egocentric, focusing on care for the self.

Platonic love

Platonic love (Latin: Amor Platonicus) is a deep and spiritual connection between two individuals: within such a relationship there does not exist any form of sexual connection or a sexual element.At the same time, this interpretation is a misunderstanding of the nature of the Platonic ideal of love which, from its origin, was that of a chaste but deep love transcending mortal life.

Same-sex relationship
A same-sex relationship can take one of several forms, from romantic and sexual, to non-romantic close relationships between two persons of the same sex.The term same-sex relationship may be used when the sexual orientation of participants in a same-sex relationship is not known. As bisexual or pansexual people may participate in same-sex relationships, some activists claim that referring to a same-sex relationship as a "gay relationship" or a "lesbian relationship" is a form of bisexual erasure. The term same-sex marriage is used similarlY.
Soulmate

Soulmate is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one's soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join. However, not everyone who uses these terms intends them to carry such mystical connotations.
Marriage

Marriage is a social, religious, spiritual, or legal union of individuals. This union may also be called matrimony, while the ceremony that marks its beginning is usually called a wedding and the married status created is sometimes called wedlock.Marriage is an institution in which interpersonal relationships (usually intimate and sexual) are acknowledged by the state, by religious authority, or both. It is often viewed as a contract. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution, in accordance with marriage laws of the jurisdiction. If recognized by the state, by the religion(s) to which the parties belong or by society in general, the act of marriage changes the personal and social status of the individuals who enter into it.

Monday, February 2, 2009

DEFINITION OF LOVE




Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. The word love is both a verb and a noun. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.




As an abstract concept, love usually refers to a deep, ineffable feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual emotional closeness of familial and platonic love to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.


The English word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts. Often, other languages use multiple words to express some of the different concepts that English relies mainly on "love" to encapsulate; one example is the plurality of Greek words for "love." Cultural differences in conceptualizing love thus make it doubly difficult to establish any universal definition.


Impersonal love


A person can be said to love a country, principle, or goal if they value it greatly and are deeply committed to it. Similarly, compassionate outreach and volunteer workers' "love" of their cause may sometimes be borne not of interpersonal love, but impersonal love coupled with altruism and strong political convictions. People can also "love" material objects, animals, or activities if they invest themselves in bonding or otherwise identifying with those things. If sexual passion is also involved, this condition is called ‘paraphilia.


Interpersonal love


Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love that are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related to love, such as ‘erotomania.


Throughout history, philosophy and religion have done the most speculation on the phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. In recent years, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have added to the understanding of the nature and function of love.